I don't know the work of Erich Fromm, M.J. but I agree entirely. I think that of that quartet I most need to develop my sense of care in ways that are meaningful to those I care for. I tend to offer the care that I think they need, and I want to be more sensitive to the care that they want.

Congrats on 20 years, my friend. That says a lot. As for still figuring it out, I think that means you're doing it right. As I learned, certainty = the end of curiosity = the end.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year's to you, brother, and thanks for reading and responding. I appreciate you!