If there's a binary, I'd rather elevate the former! That's exactly what I love most about Medium. Of course there are informational articles and arguments and self-help guides written by both men and women, but the pieces that shine are those written with emotion, personal reflection, sincerity, and a clear desire to express something true. To be honest, I do think women write this way on Medium more than men, but not for some essentialist reason, but because they want to or need to or are not afraid to. I just want to follow their lead. Lovely piece.